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I had so much fun working with Gus & Ruby to create our invitation suite. Invitations set the tone of the whole wedding weekend, and we loved the dramatic and bold statement of our black velvet invitations. We also had so much fun curating our antique stamps - focusing on a theme of literature, education and the city of Boston.
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We hosted a welcome party on Friday at the Fairmont Copley Plaza, after our more intimate rehearsal dinner. I went for a look that was more structured and classic than my wedding day looks, with a Sachin & Babi dress and Dior slingbacks.
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Our welcome party was so joyful! After we went to a small dinner with just the wedding party, we had everyone join us, and it was a great night. We had friends and family joining us from all over the world.
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It was so wonderful to finally put a face to the people I have heard so much about over the past three years. We had so much more time to see everyone during the welcome party. It was one of my favorite parts of the whole weekend.
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We got ready in my suite at the Fairmont Copley. I wore a lace Hill Hose duster that felt like a cape; I loved it. Because the wedding did not start until 7, we started hair and makeup at 11AM. Jurod and I got massages and had a wonderful breakfast that morning, so I felt so relaxed the whole day.
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All the girls in the wedding party were given Hill House nap dresses. I love them because they are perfect to get ready in, but also so cute for going out later in the summer. I wanted the wedding party to be able to use everything again.
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Oscar de la Renta made the perfect dress for me, I knew the second I put it on it was my wedding dress. The details on the dress still take my breath away, and it was so comfortable to wear all day!
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I borrowed beautiful vintage, flower shaped, diamond earrings from my mom. They were so beautiful and bold. It was special to have my ‘something borrowed’ be from her.
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I. Love. This. Dress. (and also the sparkly, and comfortable Jimmy Choos that added the perfect touch to the outfit.)
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I want to say I was laughing here at the torrential downpour happening out the window.
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Briony Raymond made our custom wedding bands. My ring, featuring round brilliant diamonds channel set in yellow gold, was the perfect match for my engagement ring also made by Briony Raymond. Jurod went with a flatter cigar band shape that looks beautiful in gold on his finger.
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Jurod got ready in his suite with his brother and other close friends.
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Jurod’s outfit was made perfect by this stunning diamond broach he wore in place of a boutonniere. I love men in jewels!
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Jurod chose to wear a white jacket with his tux from Indochino to help distinguish him from the rest of the wedding party. I loved the look. The broach looked beautiful on his lapel. It made the whole outfit scream “groom”.
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I love this picture of Jurod and his parents. All our portraits happened inside because of all the rain.
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One of our best decisions was to go with genderless wedding parties. It was so wonderful to be surrounded and supported by all our most important people on our wedding day.
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Walking up the staircase at the library for our first look was so dramatic, I loved it.
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Do a first look! Having this moment just the two of us (and the photographers and videographers) felt so special and romantic. I am so glad we did a first look.
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We like to dance out our nerves, and got some great pictures from those moments! Also, I love this view of my dress.
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This is one of my favorite pictures from the whole night. The flowers, the candles, the love, it was all there!
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My parents both looked great. I loved my mom’s beautiful Alexia Maria dress. It looked beautiful on her.
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My little cousins were our ring bearers, and the only children at the wedding. They were stars all night!
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I love going with black for a wedding party, especially for a city wedding indoors. It is so timeless. My wedding party looked great! I know some people do not like black dresses for weddings, but I think this picture proves them wrong.
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It meant so much to my dad, who grew up in Italy, to walk me down the aisle to an opera singer performing “Con te Partirò”. It was a really special moment.
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Using an Oscar de la Renta veil that matched my dress, we constructed a cape with the material. It was originally designed to walk the long entrance into the Boston Public Library courtyard, but the rain had other ideas. It was even more dramatic in the space in the Gustavo room.
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We pivoted to an indoor ceremony because of the rain. I love this picture of us surrounded by our loved ones, and books. I do not regret being in this room for a second.
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There were very few dry eyes in the room, including ours.
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One of our best friends was our officiant. It was one of the best decisions made for our wedding. Her touching words, and true understanding of our relationship made our entire ceremony special.
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We had two readings from important people in our lives. Jurod’s aunt read a passage from The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho and my cousin read the poem “Touched by an Angel” by Maya Angelou. We are not religious, but we do value literature and it was important that we honored that in the ceremony we created.
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The flowers that David created last minute to fit the indoor space were an absolute dream.
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I love the way my cape looks in this photo.
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I was so happy to be married to the man I love! All the nerves and planning felt so worth it in this moment.
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The dinner space in Bates Hall was so beautiful. It felt like traveling into just a slightly different, more ethereal reality.
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Going up to see the space before anyone got in there was another one of my favorite memories. I had spent so long planning and making decisions, but we were not prepared for how beautiful it was going to be. All the details David added perfectly highlighted our aesthetic vision.
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It was the little details like the menu cards, the black cutlery and chairs, and the gold runners that made it all come together. The flowers and lighting were beyond expectations, but the details made it special.
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I loved having a sweetheart table. There were so many flowers, it almost felt like we escaped to our own world when we were sitting back there. The table faced the main entrance to Bates Hall, so we got to watch people come in and say hello as they found their seats.
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I am glad we took the time to check in with all the tables as they were eating. We were sure we talked to everyone who came to celebrate with us.
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I love my wedding party so much! They were the best support through all the fuss and attention. We just had fun, and they made it so easy to have a good time!
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We moved into the Abby Room for dancing, and I loved how the red lighting made the whole atmosphere more moody as the night went along. All night, the masterful lighting set the mood. Do not overlook it!
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We had our first dance to Norah Jones’s “Come Away With Me” and it was so sweet and romantic. We wanted a song to remind us that this whole big event was actually just about us and our relationship. To bring us back to what was most important, each other.
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When I was in high school my dad took me to see Stevie Nicks in concert. Her father had just passed, and she had a tribute to him playing as she sang the song “Landslide." It has always been such a fundamental memory for my father and me. I knew then, at 16, that would be the song I danced with my father to at my wedding. It was the perfect choice, it felt like every guest was singing along!
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Jurod and his mom looked stunning for their dance! They danced to Boyz II Men’s “A Song for my Mama”.
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I usually find cake cutting kind of corny, but it was nice when we got a moment to sneak away from everyone and quietly, privately cut the cake.
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Having poets on demand at the cocktail hour and welcome party was one of my favorite details from the whole wedding! It was such a fun, unique and creative detail. I read poems that varied in seriousness from being new parents, to a fondness for Red Bull.
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The champagne tower was so much more fun than a cake cutting, but admittedly, we did not do the best job pouring the champagne. Some drinks were spilled by the end.
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I changed into such a fun Nadine Merabi dress for the after-party. It gave some extra life to our dancing.
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As the night went on, and it started to get later, everyone was having so much fun. The DJ/band hybrid began to peel back, and the music became a little less family-friendly.
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I love seeing how much fun Jurod was having dancing with his friends throughout the reception. He is someone who tries to pretend he is shy - but all his friends know the truth.
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We have so many great dancing shots, thanks to this beautiful beaded dress!